Prominent Nollywood actress, Dayo Amusa has taken to social media to speak to her fellow women about the reasons why men go back to their exes.
According to the Nollywood diva, men return to their former partners because when they see that a woman they left is happier without them, it destroys their ego and as such, they reach out to have control over her once again.
Dayo who made the disclosure via her Instagram page added that men reach out to see if it is possible for them to abandon women and later return whenever they feel like.
In her own words;
“He sees that you are happy without him, and his ego is damaged. This will often cause him to reach out in hopes of trying to dictate your emotions to strengthen his ego. He notices that you appear to be doing better and may believe that you’re beginning to move on. This belief prompts him to reach out in fear. When you successfully move on, it’ll make it harder for him to return.
“He’s testing you to see if it is indeed possible to abandon you and return whenever he wants to. He’s priming you for an extended rollercoaster of emotions. If he knows that he can hurt you, disrespect you, neglect you, then leave and decide when he’ll return, then he’ll most definitely continue to do it in hopes of continually breaking you down. The more you let him back in, the harder it is for you to move on”, she added.
See her post below: